Sit, relax, grab a cup of coffee or tea and enjoy the read.

My name is Elaine J. Standridge and I am realistic, blunt, loyal and loving. I am also a mother, grandmother, daughter, and a wife. Yet, I am so much more! Read this blog and you too can find out many interesting things about life, love and being a woman today.

Perfection is a dirty word. I know personally there is no such thing as happily ever after but, there is life as we know it. We adjust and chose how we will live it. Joy and happiness are choices.

I will always be real and honest with you.

I may not always have the answers you need, but I will always have compassion and love.

As Dr. James Dobson once said, “women need other women” may you find comfort and encouragement here in this blog.